David Talley

{"user_id":2167,"source":"https://margolisbloom.com/planning-for-life/estate-law-does-not-recognize-relationships-without-marriage-dont-wait-to-plan/","source_type":"link","title":"Estate Law Does Not Recognize Relationships Without Marriage: Don't Wait To Plan | Margolis Bloom \u0026 D'Agostino","description":"The fiance of an ill or deceased individual has no more legal rights than a stranger unless they have been granted status through a durable power of attorney, health care proxy and will.","html":"\u003c!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-//W3C//DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional//EN\" \"http://www.w3.org/TR/REC-html40/loose.dtd\"\u003e\n\u003chtml\u003e\u003cbody\u003e\n\u003ch1 id=\"cr-title\"\u003eEstate Law Does Not Recognize Relationships Without Marriage: Don't Wait To Plan | Margolis Bloom \u0026amp; D'Agostino\u003c/h1\u003e\n \u003cdiv id=\"cr-content\"\u003e\u003cdiv id=\"readability-page-1\" class=\"page\"\u003e\u003cdiv data-id=\"02f88ad\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"theme-post-content.default\"\u003e\n\t\t\t\t\t\n\u003cp\u003eA friend recently sent me the following email (with some particulars changed to protect the identity of the parties):\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\n\n\u003cblockquote\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThe niece of a friend of mine is currently struggling with a potential probate dispute.  Her fiancé is currently unconscious and near death in a Boston hospital.  He apparently never made a will.  Before losing consciousness, he identified her as his health care proxy, but did not otherwise express any post-death preferences.\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\n\n\u003cp\u003eThe fiancé‘s mother and two siblings live in Idaho, are estranged from my friend’s niece and want to bury the fiancé in Idaho.  Does the my friend’s niece have any rights regarding the location of the burial or the administration of the impending estate?  \u003c/p\u003e\n\u003c/blockquote\u003e\n\n\n\n\u003cp\u003eUnfortunately, the fiancé has no rights under the law. It’s fortunate that her fiancé named her on his health care proxy, so that she can be involved in his medical care. Otherwise, she would have no legal rights in that arena either.\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\n\n\u003cp\u003eUnder Massachusetts law, fiancés, partners, boyfriends, girlfriends, or just good friends have no more legal relationship than do strangers. Spouses, children and parents do have legal standing, especially with regard to estates. Absent a will, the property will pass to them under the rules of intestacy and they can petition the probate court to begin a probate administration. Others cannot unless they have been appointed under the individual’s will.\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\n\n\u003cp\u003eThis is also true of burial arrangements. Absent a will or an already executed funeral contract, family members may make burial decisions. \u003ca href=\"https://www.mass.gov/doc/239-cmr-3-registration-requirements-standards-of-business-and-professional-practice/download\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"color: rgb(95, 99, 104);\"\u003eMassachusetts regulations\u003c/a\u003e provide the following priority list for who can be in charge:\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\n\n\u003col\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ethe surviving spouse of the deceased;\u003c/li\u003e\n\n\n\n\u003cli\u003ethe surviving adult children of the deceased;\u003c/li\u003e\n\n\n\n\u003cli\u003ethe surviving parent(s) of the deceased;\u003c/li\u003e\n\n\n\n\u003cli\u003ethe surviving brother(s) or sister(s) of the deceased;\u003c/li\u003e\n\n\n\n\u003cli\u003ethe guardian of the person of the deceased at the time of his or her death;\u003c/li\u003e\n\n\n\n\u003cli\u003eany other person authorized or obligated by law to dispose of the remains of the\u003cbr\u003edeceased.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003c/ol\u003e\n\n\n\n\u003cp\u003ePrior to the ability of gay and lesbian couples to marry, the situation my friend’s niece is experiencing occurred relatively often. Estranged family members of an ill partner would swoop in and take over, sidelining the person with whom the ill or deceased person shared their life. Fortunately, these couples can marry now.\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\n\n\u003cp\u003eHowever, if you’re not married and you don’t want your family to be making decisions for you, whether those are for health care, finances or funeral arrangements, the only way to make sure that the person you choose will be the one to step in is to execute basic estate planning documents. These should include a durable power of attorney, a health care proxy and a will. Then your choices will be honored and the people you love from additional heartache. \u003c/p\u003e\n\t\t\t\t\u003c/div\u003e\u003c/div\u003e\u003c/div\u003e\n \u003c/body\u003e\u003c/html\u003e\n","hash_id":"k0LqCU4my3GQ","author":"Harry S. Margolis","reading_time":"3 min read","link_sharing":true,"archived":false,"favourited":false,"folder_id":4784,"tag_list":[]}

{"user_id":2167,"source":"https://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/8-reasons-to-update-your-estate-plan.html?variation=B\u0026utm_source=WillMaker%202024%20Purchasers\u0026utm_medium=email\u0026utm_campaign=Nolo%20Newsletter%20-%20Update%20Estate%20Plan%20-%20Dec%2017\u0026_kx=LNcYB0IJGpRyYHB_b1mi-BnUyAFy3T55PAUm8YCQGaXfQCiUnswIhDyDocO3eyLz.WyEfZG","source_type":"link","title":"8 Reasons to Update Your Estate Plan","description":"Youll likely need to revisit your will and living trust, and make other changes to your estate planning documents, after these major life events.","html":"\u003c!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-//W3C//DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional//EN\" \"http://www.w3.org/TR/REC-html40/loose.dtd\"\u003e\n\u003chtml\u003e\u003cbody\u003e\n\u003ch1 id=\"cr-title\"\u003e8 Reasons to Update Your Estate Plan\u003c/h1\u003e\n \u003cdiv id=\"cr-content\"\u003e\u003cdiv id=\"readability-page-1\" class=\"page\"\u003e\n\u003cp id=\"region-abstract\"\u003e\n \u003c/p\u003e\n\u003ch2 id=\"youll-likely-need-to-revisit-your-will-or-living-trust-after-these-major-life-events\"\u003eYou’ll likely need to revisit your will or living trust after these major life events.\u003c/h2\u003e\n \u003cp\u003e\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cdiv id=\"region-content\"\u003e\n \u003cp\u003eIf you already have an estate plan (be it a \u003ca href=\"https://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/what-is-will.html\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"color: rgb(95, 99, 104);\"\u003ewill\u003c/a\u003e, \u003ca href=\"https://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/living-trust-faq.html\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"color: rgb(95, 99, 104);\"\u003eliving trust\u003c/a\u003e, power of attorney, \u003ca href=\"https://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/living-will-power-attorney-advance-directive-30023.html\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"color: rgb(95, 99, 104);\"\u003ehealth care directive\u003c/a\u003e, or some combination of these), congratulations! You're well ahead of most Americans. But an estate plan still requires some maintenance, so take time periodically to make sure that the plan you made still fits your evolving life. How often should you update your will or renew your estate plan? Whenever you experience the life events discussed below, you should consider whether you need to make any estate plan changes.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003ch2 id=\"1-you-had-a-child\"\u003e1. You Had a Child\u003c/h2\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eHaving or adopting children is a very common reason to update a will; you want to make sure they're provided for in the event of your death. If your children are minors, use a will to name a \u003ca href=\"https://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/guardianship-children-30227.html\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"color: rgb(95, 99, 104);\"\u003epersonal guardian\u003c/a\u003e to take care of your children if you die. (Living trusts cannot name personal guardians, so even if you have a trust, you'll need to create or update a will for this purpose.)\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eIf your children are minors, you'll also need to name an adult to manage any money or other property they inherit. Ideally, this person would be the same person as the personal guardian, but it's certainly possible to name a different adult for this task (perhaps someone more financially savvy). You can name someone to manage property in a few ways:\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eName a \"property guardian\" in your will.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eName a \"custodian\" under the Uniform Transfers to Minors Act (UTMA).\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eSet up a trust for your children and name someone as \"trustee\" to manage the money in the trust until your children reach a certain age.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003c/ul\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eFor more details on property guardianship, read \u003ca href=\"https://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/leaving-inheritance-children-29633.html\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"color: rgb(95, 99, 104);\"\u003eLeaving an Inheritance for Children\u003c/a\u003e.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eIf you don't name a personal guardian or property guardian, a court will appoint someone when it becomes necessary. Understandably, few people are comfortable with the idea of leaving these major decisions to a court, and the best way to prevent that result is to plan ahead. For more information on how, see \u003ca href=\"https://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/estate-planning-when-you-have-young-children.html\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"color: rgb(95, 99, 104);\"\u003eEstate Planning When You Have Young Children\u003c/a\u003e.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003ch2 id=\"2-you-got-married-or-remarried\"\u003e2. You Got Married or Remarried\u003c/h2\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eIf you got married since making your estate plan, you should make a new will or living trust that names your spouse and clearly dictates what you want your spouse to inherit. In most states, your surviving spouse has a right to claim one-third to one-half of your property, even if you didn't leave anything to your spouse. In other states (known as community property states), your spouse will automatically own half of anything you earn during the marriage, unless you have a written agreement stating otherwise. (See \u003ca href=\"https://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/inheritance-rights-29607.html\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"color: rgb(95, 99, 104);\"\u003eA Spouse's Right to Inherit\u003c/a\u003e and \u003ca href=\"https://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/marriage-property-ownership-who-owns-what-29841.html\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"color: rgb(95, 99, 104);\"\u003eMarriage \u0026amp; Property Ownership\u003c/a\u003e to learn more about these state laws.) These laws can protect your spouse in the event that you die without explicitly leaving property to your spouse. However, state laws vary, and it's always best to state your intentions as clearly as you can.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eIf you've named beneficiaries to inherit life insurance policies, bank accounts, and retirement accounts, consider whether you want to update these designations to include your spouse, typically by filling out new forms.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eYou should also look over your other estate planning documents, such as powers of attorney for financial or health matters. If you have named someone to act on your behalf in the event of your incapacitation, does it make sense to change this person to your spouse? If so, you'll need to revoke these documents and create new ones.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eIf you have remarried, you'll also probably want to take the steps discussed above to protect your new spouse. Your new estate plan must, however, be consistent with the property division agreements of your divorce decree. See below for more.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003ch2 id=\"3-you-got-divorced\"\u003e3. You Got Divorced\u003c/h2\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eWhen people get divorced but don't get around to changing their wills before they die, most states will automatically revoke anything left to their former spouses. However, some states will follow what the will says. To avoid unexpected results, the best course of action is to make a new will or trust.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eYou'll also likely want to update your beneficiary designations on life insurance policies, bank accounts, and retirement accounts, as well as make new powers of attorney if you named your former spouse to act on your behalf, which is very common. In the case of retirement plans, it's especially important to update your beneficiary designations. If your retirement plan is governed by the Employee Retirement Income Security Act (ERISA), a federal act—and all 401(k)s are —then state rules that automatically revoke gifts to ex-spouses will not apply. For more details, see \u003ca href=\"https://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/revising-your-estate-plan-after-divorce.html\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"color: rgb(95, 99, 104);\"\u003eRevising Your Estate Plan After Divorce\u003c/a\u003e.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eAs you revise your estate plan, be aware that you must comply with the terms of your divorce decree and marital settlement agreement, which usually spell out who owns what property. Your settlement agreement might also restrict you from making certain changes; for example, it might say that you must keep your ex-spouse as the beneficiary of your life insurance policy.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003ch2 id=\"4-your-spouse-died\"\u003e4. Your Spouse Died\u003c/h2\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eBecause married couples often leave most or all of their property to each other, if you lost your spouse, you'll likely want to create a new will or living trust and update your beneficiary designations. Also consider whether you'll need to create new powers of attorney or health care directives; this is often necessary because it's so common to name your spouse as the agent or attorney-in-fact who will act on your behalf in the event of your incapacitation.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eIf you \u003ca href=\"https://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/free-books/avoid-probate-book/chapter2-2.html\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"color: rgb(95, 99, 104);\"\u003einherited your spouse's retirement account\u003c/a\u003e, you can decide whether to roll over the account into your own retirement account (and don't forget to update the beneficiary of your account), or leave it in your spouse's name. The latter option offers some flexibility if you're under age 59½ (because you can take money out earlier). Learn more about how the \u003ca href=\"https://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/how-the-secure-act-affects-your-retirement-and-estate-plans.html\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"color: rgb(95, 99, 104);\"\u003eSECURE Act and SECURE 2.0 Act\u003c/a\u003e have affected inherited retirement accounts.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003ch2 id=\"5-you-bought-a-home\"\u003e5. You Bought a Home\u003c/h2\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eIf you bought a home or otherwise acquired real estate, make sure that this significant asset is accounted for in your estate plan. You might also want to take steps to keep your home out of probate (the court process that oversees the transfer of your property after you die), which can save your inheritors time and money. Here are a few ways to go about protecting your home from probate:\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eLiving trust. \u003c/strong\u003eCreate a \u003ca href=\"https://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/living-trusts\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"color: rgb(95, 99, 104);\"\u003eliving trust\u003c/a\u003e and transfer your house to the trust. If you already had a living trust in place, you might have bought the house as the trustee of your trust, rather than as an individual. If your deed identifies you as a trustee—for example, the owner is listed as \"Delaney Moore, Trustee of the Moore Family Revocable Living Trust dated January 3, 2015\" or similar language—then your house is already held in your living trust. If only your personal name is listed as the owner, you'll likely need to transfer ownership of the house to your trust using a new deed.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eTransfer-on-death deed.\u003c/strong\u003e In more than half of the states, you can create a \u003ca href=\"https://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/free-books/avoid-probate-book/chapter5-3.html\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"color: rgb(95, 99, 104);\"\u003etransfer-on-death deed\u003c/a\u003e or \"beneficiary deed\" that names someone to inherit your house upon your death. It's usually a simple process and avoids probate. You wouldn't need to take this step if your house is held in your living trust (see above), since your house would already avoid probate.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eJoint tenancy with right of survivorship.\u003c/strong\u003e You can also co-own the house as a \"\u003ca href=\"https://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/free-books/avoid-probate-book/chapter6-3.html\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"color: rgb(95, 99, 104);\"\u003ejoint tenant with right of survivorship\u003c/a\u003e\u003cspan\u003e.\u003c/span\u003e\" (In some states, co-owning property as a \"tenant by the entirety\"—available to married couples—is a type of ownership that works the same way.) With this method of ownership, if your co-owner survives you, the house will automatically pass to your co-owner without the need for probate. But this option can raise other issues; speak to a lawyer if you're thinking of changing your sole ownership to a joint ownership.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003c/ul\u003e\n\u003ch2 id=\"6-you-moved-to-another-state\"\u003e6. You Moved to Another State\u003c/h2\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eIf you moved to another state, you might need to create new estate planning documents. Give special consideration to the following:\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eYou might need to name a new executor (the person who wraps up your estate) in your will. Some states impose restrictions on who can serve as an executor, and many other states, while allowing out-of-state executors, impose extra requirements on them, such as requiring them to post a bond (an insurance policy that protects the beneficiaries). If you can nominate someone in your new state as your executor, that person will encounter fewer hassles than someone working from afar.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eMarital property rules.\u003c/strong\u003e When you move to a new state, new state laws will apply to the will you wrote in the former state. If you're married, the marital property rules of your new state might be different than those in your old state, in which case you might want to make a new will. See \u003ca href=\"https://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/marriage-property-ownership-who-owns-what-29841.html\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"color: rgb(95, 99, 104);\"\u003eMarriage \u0026amp; Property Ownership: Who Owns What?\u003c/a\u003e\n\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003ePowers of attorney.\u003c/strong\u003e Most states will accept healthcare directives and powers of attorney made in other states, but generally, it's better to use your new state's own forms to create these documents anew. On the practical level, financial institutions and medical providers might hesitate to accept a form that doesn't look familiar to them.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003c/ul\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eFor more details, see \u003ca href=\"https://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/moving-new-state-take-look-your-estate-plan.html\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"color: rgb(95, 99, 104);\"\u003eMoving to a New State? Take a Look at Your Estate Plan\u003c/a\u003e.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003ch2 id=\"7-your-or-your-inheritors-financial-situation-changed\"\u003e7. Your (or Your Inheritors') Financial Situation Changed\u003c/h2\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eIf you've acquired substantial assets since you last visited your estate plan, reevaluate whether your current plan is still the best option for your circumstances. A will works well for many people, but it doesn't keep your property out of probate, while a revocable living trust does. An estate planning lawyer can also help you create \u003ca href=\"https://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/irrevocable-living-trusts.html\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"color: rgb(95, 99, 104);\"\u003eirrevocable trusts\u003c/a\u003e to reduce \u003ca href=\"https://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/estate-tax\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"color: rgb(95, 99, 104);\"\u003eestate taxes\u003c/a\u003e.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eIf, conversely, you've acquired significant debts, you can consult an estate planning lawyer to learn about options for reducing the burden on your loved ones, or even keeping certain assets out of the reach of creditors. Read more about \u003ca href=\"https://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/what-happens-to-my-debts-after-i-die.html\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"color: rgb(95, 99, 104);\"\u003eminimizing the effect of your debt on your beneficiaries\u003c/a\u003e.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eAnd, finally, consider the needs of your named beneficiaries. If their financial situation has changed, you might want to increase (or decrease) the gifts you originally made to them.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003ch2 id=\"8-youre-worried-about-long-term-illness\"\u003e8. You're Worried About Long-Term Illness\u003c/h2\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eIf you anticipate a long-term illness, make doubly sure you have up-to-date power of attorneys (POAs). A POA allows you to designate a trusted person to make decisions and act on your behalf. You'll need one for financial matters and a separate one for medical matters.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eYou should also create or update a living will (sometimes called a \"declaration\" or other state-specific term), which lays out your wishes for medical treatment and end-of-life care. (To confuse matters, in some states this document is combined with a medical POA; it's often but not always called an \"advance directive.\") This health care document will allow you to maintain some control—even in the event of incapacitation—by making your wishes known ahead of time. For more details, see \u003ca href=\"https://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/living-wills\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"color: rgb(95, 99, 104);\"\u003eLiving Wills \u0026amp; Medical Powers of Attorney\u003c/a\u003e.\u003c/p\u003e\n \n \n \u003c/div\u003e\n\u003c/div\u003e\u003c/div\u003e\n \u003c/body\u003e\u003c/html\u003e\n","hash_id":"pJeJgXyMLFKl","author":"Jennie Lin, Attorney · Harvard Law School","reading_time":"11 min read","link_sharing":true,"archived":false,"favourited":false,"folder_id":4784,"tag_list":[]}